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Even though I am 100% a night person, I do enjoy getting out in the sunshine for a little bit in the late afternoon once I get up, or even early evening. When I do get away to Barbadoes, my schedule altered by about an hour or two so that I do get more sunshine.

This may interest you though. I finally after waiting and waiting for the referral to come through, got to see a psychiatrist here in Toronto. I thought it would just be a medication consultation to make sure my family physician was giving me the right meds for my depression, anxiety, and etc. But he had the whole morning set aside for me and it was an intense session, and evaluation. But one of the first things that he said to me, really surprised me. I had told him that I had been taken off my security position because of the last fight and my tendency to resort to force too quickly. I told him though that I was still keeping the same hours, staying up all night and going to bed in the morning sleeping through most of the day. He actually raised his voice in emphasis to say “ that’s good! If you’ve been a night person for the last several years, that is absolutely the healthiest choice“

Movement yeah. Problem is I’m getting up there and consuming more and more pain pills. And if I overdo it one day, I pay for it the next. But if I don’t move around at all and just sit in a chair that doesn’t work either. So I’m not quite sure what to do about that. I just try to mix them up a bit.

Gratitude. I am grateful for the good things I did have in my life, even though they are some years back already, at least I had them, most importantly, my wife, Barbara. I am grateful here in Toronto for at least one good friend whose company I enjoy just on a pure friends level. But although I am grateful for certain things, I tend to focus on the negative. But something the psychiatrist told me last week was it at least I confront my problems. In fact, I pretty much put out a search and destroy mission to deal with them. And once they are gone, I can be grateful for that.

Sorry for the long answer. But I also have to say that I am grateful for you and you’re inspiring pieces. I am not forgetting that I only started a Substack because of you and one of your posts. And now I have my own Substack and will soon be posting another story on it. So thank you very much, and I hope that you and yours are very well.

Eva Baker's avatar

It’s nice to read morning routine ideas that aren’t about ‘optimising’ ‘productivity’ or ‘self improvement’. But just about gently nourishing our minds and bodies. Thank you

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